Hi, I'm a new member and this is my first post. Although my SO of four years and I have a fantastic sex life, so far I have only ever been able to orgasm through stimulating myself clitorally. If my SO goes down on me or fingers me, I just cannot cum, even though I get very excited. Needless to say, PIV sex doesn't get me there either. All of the above get close, but I can't tip over and end up doing what I always do. Even that can sometimes take a long time, and there can be a risk that SO will start to feel uninvolved. To give a little background, I have been sexually active for 30 years, and only started masturbating and therefore being able to cum about 20 years ago. I have always enjoyed sex (and have had a number of previous partners) and have a strong sex drive. I really want to be able to expand our physical relationship and let him experience fully what he has had in the past with other women. Any suggestions to help me open up?