I tried giving M (her) bite-size pieces of a soft rice-lentil cake. What does she do? She picks each and every piece off the plate with both hands, squeezes it, and drops it on the floor. Is this typical or at least normal first time "self-feeding" behaviour? If it is, I'll keep giving her the second half of her food to eat on her own and see if she'll eat it. If not, should I wait? I thought she has the pincer grasp now when she picked something off the floor but she was using all of her fingers to pick up food from the plate. Perhaps she was just trying to get used to the texture between her fingers? Does she even know that it is something to eat? She saw me feed her from that very plate... How do I tell her to eat it? Tips, please!