((HUGS)) Mel. I know how you feel. DHs cousin just had a baby 2 weeks ago. Shes 19 unmarried, living off of welfare (my money!), was a diabetic during pregnancy and didnt take care of herself and her baby was born 10 pounds. Its completely unfair to those who struggle to have one child (hers was unplanned, as Im sure you have figured out). I would have been livid if she wound up pregnanct before me!