Help with talking dirty

Discussion in 'Female Sexuality' started by HereNow, Dec 4, 2016.

  1. HereNow

    HereNow New Member

    My SO is quite fond of dirty talk. And by quite fond, I mean he does it, and expects it constantly in bed (or wherever). He's good at it, too, and it's hot.

    The problem is I am awful at it. Before, I would happily make noises; groans, whimpers, begging sounds, squeals, and even screams on occasion, but _never_ talking. He worked with me on becoming verbal, patiently. It took a long time for me to even utter any words, though now I am accustomed enough that I'll even share fantasies while we're banging (his request).

    But it puts me into a different headspace to talk like that, and normally cools my jets. I guess I feel self conscious, and awkward at best. It never feels hot, even when he reacts powerfully to something I said. And he notices instantly if I'm not feeling it.

    So I want to become more comfortable talking dirty, and actually be able to get into it. Any suggestions?


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