Help with talking dirty

Discussion in 'Female Sexuality' started by HereNow, Dec 4, 2016.


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  1. HereNow

    HereNow New Member

    My SO is quite fond of dirty talk. And by quite fond, I mean he does it, and expects it constantly in bed (or wherever). He's good at it, too, and it's hot.

    The problem is I am awful at it. Before, I would happily make noises; groans, whimpers, begging sounds, squeals, and even screams on occasion, but _never_ talking. He worked with me on becoming verbal, patiently. It took a long time for me to even utter any words, though now I am accustomed enough that I'll even share fantasies while we're banging (his request).

    But it puts me into a different headspace to talk like that, and normally cools my jets. I guess I feel self conscious, and awkward at best. It never feels hot, even when he reacts powerfully to something I said. And he notices instantly if I'm not feeling it.

    So I want to become more comfortable talking dirty, and actually be able to get into it. Any suggestions?



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