Has anyone regretted pegging their bf or husband??

Discussion in 'Female Sexuality' started by angelkiss, Aug 10, 2011.

  1. MatthewM

    MatthewM Member

    Butch, I hope that's mostly play and not real. Whatever your kink is is fine, but if you're actually making him cry and exploiting/manipulating him, that's not good.

    I see this topic has kept coming back for a number of years ... count me among the happily pegged. My advice is to use a good harness (as mentioned above) - that's actually the most important thing. My GF is something of an expert at strapons, and she maintains that the Joque harness by Spare Parts is the best, bar none. It is really stable and gives her a firm, uniform base to thrust from. That's what you want to do it right - no gaps between dildo and wearer. :)

     
  2. ducono

    ducono New Member

    Mental and physical comfort are crucial. The idea around a guy receiving anal take a learning curve. If the topic was already brought up its easier to discuss it. Sometimes he will talk about it and sometimes he won't; be mindful of this.

    Pleasure wise, it's great. Previous posts mentioned good tips. I'd say you should start with anal beads and plugs so he gets the feel of his pleasure spots. Anal plugs come in different sizes to get the behinf acquainted with foreign objects. It's helpful if he's vocal, if not you can ask him about speed and depth, how far and fast/slow he wants it.
    It's a great idea if you both go to a sex shop and buy the strapon together.
    Another tip is to watch porn videos on free sites on pegging; many of them are good and will give u an idea.
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  3. jxrx

    jxrx New Member

    I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and we have been pegging from the very first night.i fucked him before he fucked me lol i love making love to his ass. Just bought a strap on harness. Before i always just played w him w toys hands and rimming. I say ladys cut your nails and loosen your guy up with your fingers first before you try and shove a toy in there.and use alot of lube!water or silicone based. Anal play can be a amazing way to make love to your man. It dosent hurt that my babys pretty like a girl when im fucking him...
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  4. Hi JxRx
    what does it mean?

    Is he pretty as a girl?
    Or he likes to play the role of a girl being fucked?

     
  5. princeluck

    princeluck New Member

    sounds like maybe you should get a lover to take care of your needs, and then you can go home and take care of his... ;)

     
  6. jxrx

    jxrx New Member

    No my (just recently asked him to marry me he said yes!) Fiance doesnt dress up like a girl, hes just pretty like a girl. Which is good for me cause i like girls too...

     
  7. MyEffingNitemare

    MyEffingNitemare New Member

    I regret the day I stuck my finger in my husbands ass. He is obsessed with pegging, asks for it EVERYTIME we have sex, convinced me to have a Bi guy over twice and can't keep it hard for me, blaming stress. I've caught him trying to hook up w/o me several times as well.
    He's moved on to the other team and just can't admit it. I've been faking for years and now I can't even get an orgasm masturbating!

     
  8. Happyhand65

    Happyhand65 Member

    Hi Nitemare,
    Well, this is not sexual advice, I don’t think you need one, just maybe some reality check.

    “he can’t admit it,,,”
    First, have you realized he does not need to admit it?
    If he did, then would he start to keep a hard on for you? I don’t think so, he will have a hard on for the man he dreams of that week.
    So he has not moved to the other team, he convinced you to go for pegging as the bridge to bring another cock into your bedroom for him. Period. Was the Bi guy for you? Or for him?

    Second, does he now try to give you orgasms in any other way, perhaps like when you were not playing with his asshole yet?

    Third, what have you been faking, the fact that he is straight? Or that you are “orgasming” for his pleasure or "macho" self-steam?

     
  9. mica

    mica New Member

    I cant get my bf into pegging wish he would be a submissive type, as anybody got any ideas

     
  10. Foamer

    Foamer New Member

    We started out with a feeldoe slim, that wasn't enough so we went to the feeldoe more. We found that it is very comfortable when using the rodeoh panty harness. She gets lots of stimulation and so do I. We occasionally use other toys, but the feeldoe more gives us the most connection. And the big head on that really rubs the p-spot.

     
  11. Idk2016

    Idk2016 New Member

    Hi everyone, I have enjoyed reading all of your stories and advice. I have a situation to discuss myself. Me and my newly husband have always been into kinky things. I have been fingering him since I first got him drunk lol. He now is a fan of the pegging. Since I first began pegging with my husband then bf he always was so into it and enjoyed every second of it. Now, I think he is beginning to like it to much. I have pegged my husband for the past week straight with there being no pleasure for me involved. Now, I am all about pleasing my husband and it does bring me joy when he cums off me, but I want to cum too. He use to fuck me first until I came or ate my pussy until I came but now ... nothing. He is always anticipating I fuc him and he makes me engage in talk as if I were the man and he the woman and he seems to have forgotten that I enjoy that talk too and being pleased as well. I think he feels as if I really do have a dik and I cum out of it. I don't want to stop leasing my husband, but I don't think well I know I don't like where this is going....advice please thanks

     
  12. Heloveshotpink

    Heloveshotpink New Member

    I know this sounds simple, but have you talked to him about how you feel?

     
  13. Nick@work

    Nick@work New Member

    I havnt been pegged before, but I will tell you that I love my ass being played with. When the gf licks or fingers it, it's amazing. I wouldn't have a regret for being pegged tho, but something you should work up to by maybe fingering him first.

     
  14. Bucketlist0620

    Bucketlist0620 New Member

    This is something I would love to try. Really enjoy prostate massage with fingers and toys (especially as part of a tie and tease session). Would love to find a young sexy lady that is into this that could "educate" me in the joys.
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  15. Bucketlist0620

    Bucketlist0620 New Member

    This is something I would love to try. Really enjoy prostate massage with fingers and toys (especially as part of a tie and tease session). Would love to find a young sexy lady that is into this that could "educate" me in the joys.

     
  16. Bucketlist0620

    Bucketlist0620 New Member

    This is something I would love to try. Really enjoy prostate massage with fingers and toys (especially as part of a tie and tease session or 69). Would love to find a young sexy lady that is into this that could "educate" me in the joys.

     
  17. Bucketlist0620

    Bucketlist0620 New Member

    This is something I would love to try. Really enjoy prostate massage with fingers and toys (especially as part of a tie and tease session or 69). Would love to find a young sexy lady that is into this that could "educate" me in the joys.

     
  18. ashley91

    ashley91 New Member

    I regret it.. but its just me... we have sex all the time, im sore all the time... so when i say no its so what about the other hole... so one day i said ill just stick it in you. So we got a small dildo, and he liked it now he always wants it. I guess im selfish but id really like to actually enjoy sex... instead of always doing it so he enjoys it.
    I regret it because now he says its nothing and it doesnt hurt so he doesnt know why it hurts me. He seems gay to me now. Hes always down to get it in the butt. I dont want to be the man in the relationship, nothing against the lgtc but im straight. I dont need to put it in his booty to feel in control like a man.. i am a woman and id like to have regular vanilla sex, I thought being with a man for 5 years id be ok with everything, i want to be open with him, but it makes me grossed out that he only cares about sex so much that he will take it in the butt. Now im not sure if he likes guys or not...
    And it makes me mad that he says he wants to try new stuff and i ask what he wants to do but he never askes me, and yea i mean i could tell him but at this point i doubt it will be nice. Plus if we did do my fantasy hed pobably have more fun then i would and id like to enjoy my fantasy not see someone else have my fun.
    Maybe im a horrible person for being selfish, but ive tried it and i still do it, and i dont get any satisfaction out of it.
    It seems like im wrong for not likein it when so many do... id just like to actually enjoy sex and not just be the person doing all of the work..

     
  19. Bucketlist0620

    Bucketlist0620 New Member

    Sorry to hear you're not getting any fulfillment, satisfaction or enjoyment Ashley. Don't know what your fantasy is. Prostate play is not about liking men at all, not about putting you as the man in the relationship, it is about enjoyment, also an element of submitting to your partner. Have you tried any other female dominated fun? Could be that your man wants you in control and tell him exactly what you want and to make him do it for you.
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  20. theCars7897

    theCars7897 New Member

    I agree with you , I wont be ashamed to take it from a girl with a strap on and enjoy it too. Id love to submit to them and go along with the humiliation and embarrassment of it and just have fun with it.

     

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