My husband is dying for me to have anal sex with him. Although it is very arousing for him to touch and stimulate me around my anus, I'm not sure I want to go all the way. The one time we tried it, it felt like a rectal exam. I just wonder if there's something I'm not doing right to make it feel better. I know that there are couples that do it all the time and enjoy it. Maybe I'm not using the right lubricant. Is there anyone out there who has experience in this area with advice to share?